“If you ask a five-year-old what they want on their birthday, they probably won’t say ‘a perfect decoration.” They’ll say, ‘I want to play with my friends!” Honestly, that’s exactly what birthdays are all about. As parents we usually focus on cakes, decorations, and return gifts. We want everything to look perfect and sorted. But, what we forget about is what children are going to remember once the party is over. They would rarely remember the color of the cake,…